Women's Deepest, Darkest Sexual Fantasies
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SEXY TIME
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What your lady isn't telling you about, and how to make it happen.
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Her Fantasy: Sex for Show
Even
the most timid girl dreams of being a sex star at some point. The idea
of having an audience during sex provides a huge ego boost.
“Fundamentally, this fantasy is about exhibitionism,” says Ramsey.
“There’s a sense of power that can be derived from seducing someone at
a distance.” Jaycee, 28, has a recurring fantasy about her boyfriend
secretly hiding his two best friends in the closet to watch the couple
have sex: “I think about them being so turned on they open the door to
get a better view. ” Kristin, 26, even leaves the curtains open while
she masturbates to indulge her fantasy. “I like to picture some guy
right outside, watching me and beating off. Of course, if there really
were a guy outside my window, I’d die of a heart attack.”
Your reality:
The easiest way to simulate being watched is to substitute a camera
lens for the human eye. Just be sure to keep the footage well hidden
(labeling it “Mindy’s Bat Mitzvah ’07” will ensure nosy house-sitters
don’t get a free show). “I wanted the feeling of being watched, so I
asked my boyfriend to tape me,” says Maggie, 25. “When we watched it, I
got so turned on we had to do it again right then.”
Kink alert: Very hot. But look out for a familiar face next time you’re on YouPorn.
Her Fantasy: Sex with Multiple Men
That
is, multiple men at once, not multiple men over a lifetime—sorry, pal.
While you might translate this fantasy to mean your girlfriend is,
well, kind of a slut, you’d be missing the mark entirely. “This fantasy
is really about being adored,” says Ramsey. “In this scenario, the
woman is a sexual idol.” Chelsea, 31, explains: “The thought of
gangbangs turns me on because I love the idea of being so desirable
that five guys are salivating over me. Half the time I’m having sex
with my boyfriend, I close my eyes and imagine there are four other
well-endowed men waiting in line.” Alison, 27, has a recurring vision
of an encounter in the woods with a group of men. “They lean me up
against a tree and start peeling off my clothes. Then one of them takes
me from behind while the others grab my breasts, massage my clit, and
undress. For me, the nastier the fantasy, the better.” Your reality: Presumably,
you’re not too interested in letting a group of men have at your
girlfriend. Her fantasy of maximum stimulation can be replicated,
however, with the help of a few sex toys. “My husband and I always use
a vibrator or butt plug during sex,” admits Angela, 28. “They double or
even triple the pleasure—just like having multiple partners would.”
Kink alert: She’s a little bonkers, but the sex is worth it—for a while.
Her Fantasy: Sex on the Farm
No,
we’re not talking about a roll in the hay with a cowboy. We’re talking
about sex with animals. Before you freak out—rest assured that most
women who have this thought cross their minds don’t actually want to
bone Rover. According to Ramsey, bestiality fantasies are rooted in the
idea of having sex with an object, where the emotions are one-sided.
“People who have tremendous sexual drives sometimes feel other humans
can’t tolerate their intensity,” he explains, “so they turn to the next
best thing—animals.” Sara, 30, confesses: “I used to have a fantasy
about a dog licking me down there. I know it sounds creepy, but I just
thought its long tongue would feel way better than a human tongue.”
Um…yeah…of course.
Your reality: If
you’re willing to bring a live animal into your bedroom to satisfy your
girlfriend, you should both seek intensive therapy. That said, you
could try role-playing—Woof!—or dressing up as a furry. Or you could
just buy her a copy of Chicken Soup for the Horse Lover’s Soul and give her a few moments of privacy.
Kink alert: Off the charts. Time to call the ASPCA.
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